Happiness! Isn’t happiness the ultimate goal of our lives. The journey to success doesn’t it end with being happy at the end. We work hard every day, Strive for excellence, all in the end for being happy in life. Life is a rush, to be at the top you have to rush faster, but the more important thing is do you rush through it happily. Do you still have the same amount of excitement and the same energy you had at the time you begin this race on day 1?
Nobody can tell you any fuckin secret to live happily in life. Sushant Singh Rajput such a talent, such fame, what could probably go wrong in a person’s life who scored an AIR 7 in AIEEE, had a scholarship to STANFORD, was the rising fame in Bollywood?
In one of his interviews with India Today Sushant told one of his life incidents. When he was in 5 th grade he saw a fancy car in some magazine and that he told himself one day when he would buy the car and that will be the day he will call himself successful. Finally when he bought the car the next day he got used to the idea of owning the car. So the moral being journey is important not the destination.
Nobody can believe this. Everybody was dumbstruck. But we need to learn something from this. The most important thing is being contended and happy not just successful.
Here are a few things we should all take care of while we are running the rush race to success:
CONTENDMENT IS IMPORTANT.
Running behind success matters but what matters more is being contended in what we have. To thank god for giving us such a beautiful life. To enjoy the little joys of life. Sometimes going out in the rain, or the pain puri marathons with friends, reading a novel with your favorite chai. All these little moments are all the more reason to be happy in life.
BE SELF DEPENDENT
This is the biggest problem of our generation we are to over-dependent. We need a fuckin girlfriend to do everything in life. Why can not we be happy on our own( i am not asking you to masturbate your life out)? connect with someone to be happy together not to suck the happiness out of their life.
Why do you need a girlfriend to call in the morning and say- ‘”Good morning baby”. What was the last time you woke up and went in front of the mirror gave a huge happy smile, wished yourself a good morning. Promised yourself that you will give your 100 percent. You will be productive.
Start taking things in your own hands be reasonable with everything you do.
LAUGH AND MAKE OTHERS LAUGH.
Yeah, this is very important. To be full of humor and try and make people around you laugh. That suddenly brings betterment to your laugh. Being cheerful brings positivity in our lives it brings with it a sense of belonging. Laughing suddenly brings hope of happiness.
DON’T LEAVE OUT ON TODAY’S HAPPINESS
Sandeep Maheshwari in one of his Motivational videos quotes it very correctly ” People think that achieving something in life will make them happy, but when they actually get it they start running behind something else thinking achieving that will make them happy”
Run behind success but don’t forget to enjoy the journey to the destination. Because life isn’t about being successful it’s about being able to enjoy the journey every time. Doing good in school to making it great at college. from being a good student to a very professional employee, From being a good father to being a much better grandparent.
Don’t miss out on these journeys because if you miss them then success will never feel sweet.
YOUR HOBBIES SHOULD ALIGN WITH YOUR SUCCESS.
Make sure you have hobbies that go hand in hand with your goals, not at the cost of them. Make hobbies that bring joy and passive income. Give it your best.
Do things that scare you. One fear cannot be felt twice if you gather up the courage to face it once.
RELATIONSHIPS ARE OVER RATED
Relationships don’t make you a complete person, your girlfriend doesn’t make you a complete man, you do, they are so overrated. It does not matter whether you have a girlfriend or not. Stand up for on your own for your own happiness.
Let me give you an example the two most cheerful people in my class are singles, Abhishek Pati ( he has a 16-inch bicep ) he does not need a girlfriend because his dumbells wish him good morning every day and he is so much in love with them. Amit ( he passed all the 4 semesters without buying a notebook) this dude is so happy in himself that he doesn’t need someone to love him or make him feel important, He has this immense amount of self-love.
Start being productive in life. That is the ultimate secret to happiness. The day you become productive you realize your self-worth. So wake up and start up buddy before its too late.
5 QUICK TIPS.
- Embrace the loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.
- Time heals everything, give it time.
- Your only competition is what you were yesterday.
- See failures as the beginning don’t stop till you succeed.
- You are in charge of your happiness.
NOTHING GOES ACCORDING, TO OUR PLANS, DON’T LET THAT STOP YOU FROM ENJOYING WHATEVER YOU ACHIEVED.,